A close friend of mine is having twins, which I am truly happy for her!! It’s the best feeling ever having two little munchkins. However, now that she is having her babies all my husbands’ friends are starting to compare our babies, which I don’t think they should do that.

Our children are totally different and no one should compare the two. For us it was hard to get pregnant and I do things my own way because I am super caution with them.

For her it was all natural and as she says easy. So don’t compare the two, even though, she has no idea what we went through it still shouldn’t matter.

I understand we are the only two they know who have twin but they are two different children whom should be compared too. Every mother raises her child totally different; including myself.

I do try to give my friend some advise on twins, however, she doesn’t listen and I don’t expect her too since she will be doing things her own way.

However, my whole point is even though they are twins they are fraternal, which everyone knows means different.

Am I wrong to take it personal?

-Hope