My baby girls are 9 months already I can’t believe how fast they grew!

As my husband would say “9 months in the womb and 9 months out”. I would say now it’s the best time.

However, I would like to go back to me being pregnant.

Starting IVF isn’t easy the fact that it’s extremely expansive and stressful it’s also very hard on any relationship.

Women who go through it sometimes won’t speak about it; well I couldn’t. I felt embarrassed that I’m in my late 20’s and I couldn’t get pregnant naturally. I would always say to myself why? Why me? Now I look back on my situation and I say. “It wasn’t embarrassing it was just a struggle that I had to go through.” I should of spoke about it more but at that time I didn’t want to feel like a victim.

Then I recall a situation with a friend of my husbands’. When he spoke about someone else having an issue trying to conceive. He was so negative and blamed it all on the woman, meanwhile, he really didn’t know there situation. At that point I should of spoke up but I didn’t, I was at my lowest point knowing that that woman could have been me.

I am truly grateful to have my baby girls and even though I couldn’t have them naturally I just want to say THANK YOU IVF. If it wasn’t for modern medicine I don’t know what I would do.

IVF is a blessing and not something any women should be embarrassed by.

-Hope