I read an interesting status and comments on Facebook. A female who I went to high school with posted this on her Facebook status: “So I officially signed my papers to get my tubes tide… “ For a second I thought it was a joke. You are 28 years old you were truly blessed to have healthy babies, why would you want to give that up? To make things worse the comments that is written by my other classmates. “OMG I want mine as well but my husband will be upset”. People are so ungrateful. They don’t understand for some it is very difficult even getting pregnant and for you it’s so easy to give that up? I am not any angel and yes, I had abortions when I was 17 and 18 but I would never want to tie my tubes in my 20’s. Go on birth control, use protection, be more careful but don’t tie your tubes.
It’s not like she has a bunch of kids. She is currently pregnant with her 3rd.
That status truly hurt me, while I am seating here trying to find a way to have a healthy pregnancy. I just want to reply and say “ you are being stupid, you are blessed to bring healthy beauties to this world why would you give that up?”
But I won’t, I’ll not bring myself down.
-Hope
I had a friend who had her tubes tied at 23. She didn’t have any kids. I know she would never admit to regretting the decision (she’s 36 now), but I get the feeling she does. As someone who has had a few miscarriages I feel the same as you…why would you give up the option of having more kids–especially when you are so young?
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It was soo upsetting to me today that I started crying . Why would anyone want to do that? Atleast I am not the only one who feels like that .. Thank you Leslie
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